Can Gay Men Get a Surrogate?

Short answer:
👉 Yes! Gay men absolutely can pursue parenthood through surrogacy.
👉 In fact, surrogacy is one of the most common and successful paths for gay couples and single gay men who want to have a biological child.

1️⃣ How Does Surrogacy Work for Gay Men?

Two Main Components:

1️⃣ Egg donation
2️⃣ Gestational surrogacy

👉 Since neither partner produces eggs, an egg donor is chosen to provide the eggs.
👉 The couple (or individual) provides sperm—from one partner or both (see “mixing sperm”).
👉 Through IVF (In Vitro Fertilization), embryos are created.
👉 A gestational surrogate (who is not genetically related to the child) carries the pregnancy.

2️⃣ Types of Surrogacy for Gay Men

✅ Gestational surrogacy is the standard and safest route:

👉 The surrogate is implanted with an embryo made from the donor egg and intended father’s sperm.
👉 The surrogate has no genetic link to the baby.
👉 Legal agreements and protections are carefully arranged.

3️⃣ Legal Considerations

💼 Surrogacy laws vary by country and U.S. state.
💼 In many places (like California, Canada, Colombia, and some parts of Europe), surrogacy is open to gay couples and singles.
💼 In other regions, surrogacy may be restricted or banned for LGBTQ+ individuals—so choosing the right location is key.

👉 Always consult with a lawyer specializing in LGBTQ+ surrogacy law to ensure protection and smooth processing of parental rights.

4️⃣ Why Many Gay Men Choose Surrogacy

✨ To have a biological connection to their child
✨ To be involved in the pregnancy process from day one
✨ To legally establish parentage from birth
✨ To build a family fully supported by medical and legal professionals

5️⃣ The Journey: What to Expect

✅ Find an agency experienced with gay surrogacy
✅ Choose an egg donor
✅ Undergo IVF and create embryos
✅ Select and match with a surrogate
✅ Sign legal agreements
✅ Begin embryo transfer and pregnancy
✅ Welcome your baby!

Conclusion

Can gay men get a surrogate?
👉 Absolutely YES.
👉 With the right support, legal preparation, and care, gay men worldwide are successfully building families through gestational surrogacy every day.