Every journey begins with a choice — and for Autumn, that choice was love.
More than just a mother, Autumn is a two-time surrogate who has carried not only babies, but dreams, love, and the hopes of families who once thought parenthood was out of reach. Her decision to become a surrogate wasn’t made lightly — it was born from a deep desire to share the joy she had found in motherhood with others who longed for the same.
💬 “Not everyone gets to feel that unconditional love — I wanted to help someone have that.”
Autumn first learned about surrogacy when she was young, but the idea truly took root after she had her daughter. Becoming a parent opened her heart to the powerful bond between parent and child, and made her realize she could offer that gift to someone else.
While her decision was deeply personal, it wasn’t always easy. At first, her father wasn’t supportive — simply because he didn’t fully understand surrogacy. But as she began her journey, Autumn found that most of her family and friends stood behind her, offering their support and encouragement.(More: From Start to Finish: A Surrogate Mother’s Guide to the Surrogacy Timeline)
👨👩👧 Matching with Intended Parents
Autumn recalls the moment she met her intended parents (IPs) during their match meeting. “I was nervous, but excited,” she shares. “As soon as I heard their story, something just clicked. I knew I wanted to do this for them.”
That instant connection set the tone for a meaningful relationship. From heartfelt conversations to thoughtful gifts — chocolates, flowers, even toys for her daughter — Autumn felt appreciated and valued throughout her journey.
In one particularly touching moment, her intended mother would visit every Thursday night to cook dinner together. “It was such good quality time,” Autumn says with a smile.
👶 A Moment That Changed Everything
For Autumn, the most unforgettable moment came during delivery. After the baby was born and placed on her chest, she looked down and thought, “I helped create this little life for someone.” In her second journey, she remembers the IM (intended mother) crying tears of joy while cutting the cord and hugging her, overwhelmed with gratitude. “That’s when I knew — it was all worth it.”
💡 The Real Rewards of Surrogacy
Autumn believes surrogacy gave her more than she ever expected — both emotionally and practically. Yes, the financial compensation helped with a down payment on a home and returning to school, but the deeper reward was something more lasting:
“It’s that warm, fuzzy feeling — that fulfillment you get from helping complete a family.”
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💭 Do Surrogates Get Attached?
This is one of the most common questions Autumn gets. Her answer is honest and reassuring: “No, I don’t get attached to the baby. You feel a kind of love — more like an aunt would feel — but it’s not the same as a mother’s attachment. The baby is not genetically mine, and I always knew I was carrying someone else’s child.”
❤️ Why She Chose to Do It Again
After her first surrogacy journey, Autumn knew she wanted to do it again. The joy she experienced in helping one family inspired her to help another. “It was just an amazing feeling. I couldn’t wait to help someone else achieve their dream.” (Becoming a Surrogate: Is It the Right Choice for You?)
Today, Autumn is proud to be part of a growing surrogacy community in Houston. With stronger support from her family than ever — especially her mom, her biggest cheerleader — Autumn continues to advocate for surrogacy with compassion, honesty, and grace.
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🌟 Autumn’s story reminds us that surrogacy isn’t just about giving birth — it’s about giving hope.
If you’re considering surrogacy, whether as a surrogate or intended parent, stories like Autumn’s offer insight, encouragement, and a powerful reminder that love can grow in the most selfless ways.
